Fail, Fail Again, Fail To Become Better

A few years ago, I read a book titled Fail, Fail Again, and Fail better. I took a lot of wonderful lessons from that book one being that Failure is inevitable in life. The purpose of being here on earth is to grow and to reach our full potential to fulfill our life purpose.

I remember always living in constant fear and indecisiveness. I was always afraid of being incorrect and judged for the decisions that I made. Although my childhood played a major role in my reactions, my actions unintentional block my movement and growth.

As I mature and mold myself into the woman I aspire to become, I eventually realized that there was one of two things that could be done in this situation, continue to live in constant fear and limitation or take control of my life and dive into the unknown. What I learned is that some of the best memories I have made in my life appeared from the unknown.

At some point in your life, you will fail and that is okay. You are going to make mistakes in life and it is okay. Always remember that you control your life including what comes next after your failures.
Chances are if you are going through challenges and adversity, there is a lesson that needs to be learned, there is some sort of growth and knowledge that requires development. Pick yourself up, learn from your mistakes, continue to take chances, and always trust the process.

“Don’t change what you can’t control, control what you can change”. – MO

Your perception for instance, a shift in perspective is needed during the discussion of failure. Ask yourself: are you really failing or are you learning for growth? When you look at the negative circumstance in your life as a learning opportunity, we begin to embrace the inevitable life lessons the universe has to offer.